I had a friend whose boyfriend we called "his driver", we called that coz everywhere we go, he took her, drop her, picked up her, drove her there, drove her here.
And there's our other friend who is boss in home and the husband is look like maid coz he 'yes man' and do what his wife said.
And other friend who look like a sister to her boyfriend, not older but act older.
And other friend who act like babysit her boyfriend. Go everywhere, wipe the sweat after basketball, serve the dish when in restaurant, get him drink, get him that, get him everything he want.
Is it love, dedication, or professionification????
We always refer a status together with other status and all suddenly got segmented.
Are you a mad girlfriend, or are you bossy friend or are you possessive boyfriend??
Can't we just say girlfriend, boyfriend, etc???
When we face a couple of parents, oftenly we asked, " who is a bad cop and who is the good cop??"
And some answers mom as bad cop and dad is a bad cop or reverse
or if we found couple gay, who is the male one and the female??
We knew that all that status is based on character and attitude we are, but what actually attitude that refer to "basic status" like wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend???
So who are you??? bitchy girlfriend??? or sissy boyfriend??
Today monologue from Ms. Deejay
